Being comfortable can be dangerous. Not in the sense that a nice throw will kill you, but rather when we accept where we are without question, we deny ourselves the opportunity to experience something better. In retrospect, the times when I’ve grown the most are when I’m uncomfortable- starting a new job, moving to a new city, or meeting new people. Recently, I found myself stuck somewhere that seemed so familiar, that my routine limited my potential to experience the world in a more appreciative way.
At the risk of growing complacent, I realized that I needed to break away from expectations, structure, and comfortability to learn what it means to be Nick. And so, I’m embarking on a seven month international exploration that will push me beyond comfortability into a world I have yet to experience in this way, to learn for myself and to question the life I want to live.
While I’m excited to share my stories with others, the memories I make and lessons I learn are for me. For the Nick who feels like he has to hide himself. For the Nick who thinks he has to earn his voice. For the Nick who is scared of the unknown. For the Nick who deserves to be happy.
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to nickinthe.world!
have fun and stay safe
complete classes for undergraduate major
work on "Place and Identity" project
meet new people
capture moments with photos and words
move forward, together ♥️
empathy and inclusion
cultural humility
kindness
openness
bravery
leadership
stories are how we experience the world and connect with others. international travels serve now for me as not just an escape, a trip, or a exploration but a vital platform for developing life-long relationships, memories, and skills. follow my travels and experiences by reading some of the stories that define my journey here.
travel. place. identity. people. culture. language. food. life.
our experiences inspire thoughts beyond tangible description, motivating our values and goals, and challenging us to explore life more intentionally. read more here about the thoughts i've had as during my travels.
Along with the entertainment and momentary comfort, gay bars have broadened my perspective on what it meant to be gay while certainly leaving more questions than answers. Jeremy Atherton Lin in his book “Gay Bar” observantly states that “…the men didn’t come to the city to be who they’d always been, but who they wanted to be. They didn’t move to a place they knew as a reality, but inscribed on their imagination…” Was I really embracing myself in these experiences, or doing my best to become who I thought I should be? I became interested in exploring how places, especially those frequented by gay individuals, have an impressive power to either build up or tear apart our notions of personal identity. It is this motivation that has inspired my travels and provides context for my learning throughout the globe.
idk, troye